It’s a corresponding post for Fashion Achievers Vlogmas day 1!
Do you wanna scream now: “Hold done! You don’t know me! You don’t know my life! You don’t know what I’m going through!” Right, I don’ know you. But the reason why we struggle is the same for everyone! Do you wanna know, why you struggle? Are you the one asking WHY all the time? It’s the right place for you! And I don’t wanna keep you waiting for the answer. The reason why you struggle is… Your life is running on autopilot!
It’s a result of past negative programming. We was and we still are influenced by society, environment… Through the years we develop a STORY about who we are, what we can and can not do. We have different values, beliefs, habits. We understand things differently. But this is not always the truth. It might seem to be true but if we didn’t try it, we never know for sure. We believe that we have free will, but…
Our choices are based on our programming.
How do you know that pleasure is good and pain is bad? How do you know if something won't work if you never try it?
I know. You may feel a little bit strange. Should you question everything now?
Asking questions is good.
But it's not necessary. You should be aware of the programming process. And don't believe in everything what people tell you. They may be wrong.
When we are growing up, people are sharing their knowledge with us. Of course they want our best, but... we never now that what they say is 100% true.
I’m not telling the truth, I’m sharing my truth!
We can’t treat every information as a FACT and live with it. We have to question things, be curious, experiment. There’s no one right thing to do. There’s no one way to do things. It doesn’t mean that people are lying to us. They are not sharing THE TRUTH, they sharing THEIR truth.
It may not be true for you, but it is for them. Don’t be a person “I know better” who is treating everyone as an idiot. People may be wrong about something, but be kind, respect others. Also, stop re-acting on what life is giving you, create your life!